Living with a Gaslighter by Helen Puk

Months after he assaulted me, he told me the bruises on my body were not from him but rather from my having bumped into things. He’s now suing me for defamation saying I’m lying about the injuries. This, despite having been arrested for assault. This, despite the doctor’s notes he saw. This, despite having paid close to 70 thousand dollars for my medical expenses. This, … Continue reading Living with a Gaslighter by Helen Puk

Shame on you for telling me to “act” to put you out of your “misery!

No, he didn’t care then and he doesn’t care now about my life or my children’s lives.  Otherwise he wouldn’t be such a barbarian – Our lives are worthless to him and his enablers. If you are experiencing the same, know you aren’t alone nor was it your imagination. Hang in there because you are the best reason to live. First and foremost, I still … Continue reading Shame on you for telling me to “act” to put you out of your “misery!

Careful…You don’t want to end up like me.

I’m here to share my story of abuse with my ex abuser, Vincent C. Beggs, Wells Fargo VP, with the hope for others to share their story without fear and the hope that someday we can make shaming the abused a thing of a past. I’m not a jilted lover nor unstable, same word he used to describe his ex wife when we first met … Continue reading Careful…You don’t want to end up like me.